I realised now previously when I was in my ex department, I was in a condition of codependency. Basically almost all my ex colleagues in tt department were senior citizens and they heavily relied on me even to the tiniest matter. It was an unhealthy relationship whereby I had felt more like a slave and helpless in the sense even the Head of Department just abdicate to me. Even though I could say it was not my job, but it still ended up me doing it. Even I had left them and changed dept, the addiction was still there as their enabling behaviour of playing victims were there. And I could not help myself from helping them until finally one day, I decided totally cut off from them especially after the my ex boss silent treatment. Please pray me to heal and pray for my ex boss Monica that God will heal her from orphan spirit. Tq.

There was this ex colleague who kept violating my boundaries and always asking me to help despite we are already in different dept. I told her there is a need to have boundaries between depts and I would not help her anymore. She can refer to her own colleagues. To her, she felt that since I m her friend and therefore I should help her for that's what friends are for. Nevertheless I told we need to go according to hr policy. This was last week or so since this conversation took place. This afternoon I saw her and she said so we no longer friends anymore. After that, I had sudden realisation, this ex colleague is trying to blackmail, control me with guilt and whatever conversation I had with her previously didn't even register in her mind. To her, friend is an object to help her and to be used. If I don't help her means that I m not her friend. Please pray for me that God will protect me from her. I actually now cut off all contacts with her. Pray that she wouldn't harass or bother me anymore.

One year ago I was given a choice to leave my department and went to another new department. I chose to leave, the reason being that I felt my ex colleagues were too needy and over relying on me given that most are senior citizens. I had to do my work and at the same had to help them to do theirs. Then my new exboss came in before I left and we kind of worked well together. And I kind of regret of having chosen to leave. After I left my old dept., I felt a deep addiction or attachment to my ex dept especially when they keep asking me for help or act the victim. But in front of other people, they were acting like I was the one who cannot let go. I realised now I was in a trauma bonding with my ex dept. All these were abuses, manipulation. And I give thanks to God for bringing me out. Please pray for me for healing.

Please continue to pray for my ex boss Monica Foong as she is also going to a church whose teaching is a bit questionable. Pray that she will be set free from deception. At one time she actually idealised me and made me to keep trying to gain her approval. Then after a short business trip with her, the idealisation broke, she found I was not as perfect as she thought I were. Then came the silent treatment to control and punish since then until now. I really saw the real her back then. Pray that spirit of repentance, humility and healing to come upon her. Pray that miracles will happen that turn her heart to God. Let fear of the Lord come upon her.

Please pray for me that I am able to set boundaries and not have those emotionally unhealthy people around me. Pray for my ex boss Monica Foong that all her spiritual blindness be taken away, that she is able to see her own brokenness, fully repent, humble and willing to face the truth. Pray that God will set her on the journey of God and self discovery and provide inner healing, deliverance.

I read in article, that narcissist does not forgive. Please pray for miracle that my ex boss Monica can learn how to forgive

I found out My ex boss is a covert narcissist. After all I have done to help her when I was in her dept, she now treats me with silent treatment, as invisible person. It's like she has discarded me like tt. Please pray for her, Monica and me too.

Two years ago I met my new lady ex boss Monica. At first everything went well and I struck a friendship with her. It was actually a queer friendship though Cox there were lots mixed signals. Lately though our friendship becomes a nightmare. She didn't tell what is her needs, wants. And when her needs not met, she started to give me silent treatment and for many months. Even though I tried to ask her or apologise, there was no response. Recently I read article on narcissism and I realised. It was all manipulation and mind games that the Devil is using her to do destructive work. Please pray for her to see the truth, repent and healing for me too.

Pray for me for direction. I pray God will lead me another place another church another life.