Dear God,

I have SAD, and I'm really afraid of having an intimate relationship with any guy that I date with. Currently, I started my relationship with what seems to be a very kind, and understanding person. However, I am not sure how to discuss to him about this problem. I realize how all guys think the same on this issue, and it's all part of growing up. I'm almost in my 20's, and I realize that it won't be long before I will have to get married, etc. A part of me wants to have chastity in my life because of my religion, but I also think it's a part of my fear which I want to eventually overcome. I am feeling very confused, and very scared of telling my boyfriend. I am not sure if he will understand, and even if he does, I think my problem will be hindering our relationship. We are going on trip together soon, and I am not sure how I should approach this issue. Please help me be honest to myself, and be firm with what I need to do- despite my fears and doubts.

Sincerely,

Your child