Asking the Lord for wisdom and discernment for my marriage. After years of chronic illness, cancer, extreme stress supporting two special needs children I am not the same person I was years ago. I am more confident in myself. I am more aware of my needs and what I want in a man and in a relationship. My husband and I are in my opinion on the complete opposite ends of what our needs are and communicating with him has become extremely challenging for me. I also would bet anything that he has Aspbergers Syndrome . This and his intense cerebral way of thinking is pushing me over the edge. I want to communicate in the way he needs but I cannot figure out how to do it. My brain does not work that way. I am almost 50 years old and do not want to me unhappy or constantly feel frustrated and unfulfilled in my marriage. I want to love him the way God loves me but I don't know how without sacrificing everything that I am.