My elderly Mom is slowing losing her memory. She is over spending her budget and getting scammed now over $5500. I put on her the do not call list to help to remember not to talk to people wanting money. When I try to talk to her about her spending she get defensive. She tells me she isn't going to live in the nursing home or with me. She is scare of losing her independence. I want her to be able to live in her home and drive too. I really need prayer for knowing how to deal with her without making her defensive.