Gena, I’m praying for you and your kids! What if you were proactive, maybe call someone about the situation, and your neighbors yelling (even yelling profanities), just so you know your letting them know ahead and not “hiding” anything. Anyone who has kids knows, they all have had a temper tantrum at one time or another. Does not mean parents are abusing them or neglecting them. I also pray for a lot more love, understanding, and kindness from all our neighbors, pray people stop assuming the absolute worst and possibly even ask if they could help in any way. Hang on to your faith! Stay strong and know God is watching over you all. It will get better, just be positive no matter what. Fake it till you make it. It will also be noticed by your children and help them.