My husband had an affair with our neighbor, starting in Nov. of 2008 (a month after we moved into our new home) and ending last May. I made the decision to stay with him, because I did not want my boys to become just another statistic...I know that I will never forget what he did, whom he did it with, and how it devastated my life; but I do pray for closure and the ability to move forward and on with my life. I can't seem to do those things...