Try to think of it this way...You have 2 choices. Honor her request (a true friend would do this), or lose her friendship completely. Put yourself in her shoes... Imagine if someone did this to you every time you saw the person. I think it would annoy you as it would annoy anybody. And if you told that person to stop, I think you would be upset if that person didn't respect your request. You should not be hurt--No one likes to be told the same thing every time we see someone. To have a friend, you need to be a friend. Do you have a counselor or someone you can talk to to try and figure out what it is about this woman that has you obsessing over her so much? I'm praying for you Kim. God bless you.