All due respect, how about throwing your deadbeat husband out!! 2 Timothy 3:1-5 God calls us to exercise the spirit of discernment! God is your husband, so TRUST HIM! Stand on His Promises and use the Word of God as your sword!! I say this because that is exactly what I did when my husband would NOT stop drinking, he was fInancially abusive and abandoned the family and our marriage when I was 7 months pregnant with our 6th Child!! God revealed to me later, that I too had a part!! I was no better, then my husband (who I blamed for everything!) b/c I was allowing it!! 2 Timothy 3:6 That is my fault!! Doing the wrong thing AND NOT doing the right thing or doing nothing is Sin, too!! He WILL help you but, you must surrender all of this!! He did it for me and He will do it for you!! Matthew 6:33-34