Hi Colleen. Don't concern yourself with getting yourself a boyfriend or partner. That's not important right now because it sounds like you are looking for someone to fill the void that your late mom has left in your life. I would suggest that you focus on yourself first for now. Get to appreciate the you in Colleen and learn to be by yourself but at the same time focus and strengthen your intimate relationship between you and God through the comfort of the Holy Spirit. Become the woman that God intended you to be in his sight and the right man will be sent at the right time.
God bless you and I hope this makes sense.

Will do so Kim