God gives us free will. You got married because it was your will not God's. if he has shown you repeatedly what he is why stay? God is next to the broken hearted . He hears you. However you don't hear him. He is allowing you to find out about the infidelity but you choose to stay . When a person or situation is not for you you will repeat the lesson until you pass the test. I'll give you a cheat code no pun intended. leave and never look back!