I think I know who you are by your prayer request and I have been praying for you. Although someone obviously mentioned that you be patient, I would suggest relaxing instead. You are putting so much pressure on yourself to reach a 'goal,' rather than enjoying intimacy with your loved one. But what can that accomplish since the end 'goal' is out of your control? Some studies have shown that stress on the part of both partners actually reduces sperm and egg production. Perhaps the person who suggested "patience" was a bit shy about explaining how patience/relaxation can help achieve your goal. Try just loving the partner whom God provided you, and you may be sharing good news soon. I will keep praying that this blessing comes to you soon. Just enjoy. Sounds so simple, but it just may be the answer to your prayer.